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Saturday, October 17, 2009

Gone Too Soon

Dear Uncle Ron, 
It would have been good to make it out to see you one last time before you had to leave. Although we've always lived in different cities, it has been a pleasure knowing you.  You have been one of the most hospitable, helpful, caring people I have known. Full of good jokes, kind thoughts, strong opinions and an open mind. Looking back over my life, I think of many good times with you and also with Wendy. Everytime we passed through Calgary, your home was not only always open, but filled with comfy beds and good food. I recall many different gatherings and celebrations over the years that you brought much life and many smiles to; always ready with a helping hand to hold a door, grab a drink for someone or just be the first to say hello and chat. You could always count on the fact that the raucous laughter coming from the happy group of people in the room included you! I'm glad I got to spend a week with you a couple of years ago when Grandpa passed on. We had some relaxing nights watching late night tv (even some hockey!) and just reading or talking. I also remember (in a bit of a blur) what a great help you were when you came out for our wedding. Helping set up and get organized, it was wonderful to have all of our family there and working together. I will always look back on it as a time of united joy. You've always been quick to get in on a good joke or happily be the butt of a joke! And your optimistic attitude changed minds and lifted spirits whoever you were with.
You have set the example in terms of loving your parents, working hard, but also of seeing the world, living your life to the fullest and just being a happy guy. 
Just wanted to let you know that you were dearly loved and you are already missed by so many.

Love from Pam.

2 Comments:

At 3:08 p.m., Blogger Damero said...

Good words Pam. Uncle Ron was a good man. He will be missed.

 
At 4:29 p.m., Anonymous Mom said...

You said just the thoughts I had in a much better way than I could of done. Thanks Pam for a wonderful teary remembrance of my brother:)

 

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